Proverbs 24:12

"...once our eyes are opened we can't pretend we don't know what to do. God, who weighs our hearts and keeps our souls, knows that we know, and holds us responsible to act."

Friday, April 11, 2008

What day is it, anyway?

So I am finally sitting down to write. The house is quiet, other than the 3 parakeets and 2 cockatiels here in 'foster care.' They seem to know that I've grown accustomed to a certain amount of noise, so they are providing background chatter during this calm time.

I realized a little while ago that I've had a bit of a writer's block. It seems that staring at a blank wall is about all I feel that I can manage when I actually have the time to write! So I've determined that I need to start carrying around a little notebook or something to jot down my thoughts through the day. I really do come up with some great stuff! ~ Unfortunately, it's usually at 4am, when I am wedged between L and Ic in bed. Each has found a new habit of intruding on my sleep and bedspace in the wee-morning hours. But I really can't blame them for waking me... B has usually taken care of that by yelling my name from his bed, summoning me to come and pull up his covers and give him a kiss.

In reality, my attempt to carry a notebook would be abandoned within about 1/2 an hour from my waking... or, my 'official' waking, anyway. I won't include the multiple wakings from various children through the night.

I'm sure that the notebook would be in the way of some daily function ~ say, cooking breakfast for 10 hungry people, heading off the next potential bout of sibling rivalry, or officiating the after lunch kitchen chores. How, exactly, would I keep track of a small notebook among the dozens of school books and requests for my attention?

Speaking of cooking: Some adoptive families have 'food issues' with their newly home children. The only issue we have faced thus far is having enough food on hand. The 3 girls eat like 3 grown men! We keep a shaker of Berbere spice on the table, and they sprinkle it (which is an understatement) on almost all foods. I would not be at all surprised to see one of them chowing down a peanut butter/jelly/berbere sandwich! If you're not familiar with berbere, it is a lively mix of red spice - quite yummy, but not for the faint of heart/weak of tummy.

There ~ now do you see my point? I'm not even carrying the notebook, and already it is lost in a rabbit trail about cooking and Ethiopian spices! I remember losing my mind before - 5 times before, actually. Then I blamed it on post-birth hormones... 'oxy-something-or-other.' Now I have no credible culprit... I'm just low on sleep, and getting flakier by the day.

For those who would like to get past my flakey ramblings, and get some true information:
Our adjustment is going quite well, despite me. ;) Every day gets easier as the girls learn the routine, and siblings learn which 'buttons' cause which reactions. The girls are learning that they have the bummer of getting stuck with parents who really do make them do... But I think they're enjoying the laughter here too.
I was shocked to find out that they (esp. Mo) wanted to begin school work immediately. After some initial panic, we've found appropriate school books and have begun the education effort. Mo is pleased, but can't wait to move on to the 'harder' books. She would like to fast forward the English acquisition, and get on with life in America. We get her gorgeous smiles multiple times a day, but especially when we give her permission to phone her friends in other states. When we look through photos of the kids from Layla, she remembers in which State each child lives with their new family.
Ed was the first of the three to master riding a bike. As of yesterday, she is tooling down and around the driveway without foot dragging and running into bushes. Thanks, Ic, for teaching her about brakes! She is showing enthusiasm for the dogs and other animals. She faithfully brushes one of the white, fluffy dogs, and I often see her carrying it like a baby. She thinks the horses are pretty cool, though she prefers to ride one of the greenbroke minis instead of the intimidating, but fully trained, big horses. She shows very little fear, and jumps into life with gusto.
L is all about affection and fun. She was helping me in the kitchen the other day, opening cans of fruit for supper. She paused her constant chatter to say, "I love kitchen best." I thought, "Oh, how very sweet! She loves working in the kitchen with her mom..." She then caught her self, and corrected her English... "I mean CHICKEN. I like chicken best." hmm. That would explain why she gets so excited about 'Kitchen and Noodles.' Her second week here, L was cradling an uncomfortable looking cat in her arms: "I have a killy, killy cat!" and, swinging the cat back and forth, she sang: "Merrily, merrily, merrily, merrily.." The 'killy, killy cat' did not look very merry.

Tomorrow is our first post-adoption visit with our social worker. I suppose I should get some sleep so that I can panic clean in the morning!

Thanks for your prayers!

4 comments:

Paula said...

Oh Sherri! THANK YOU so much for inviting me to view your blog. It's such a blessing to see your beautiful family and read about this new chapter in all of your lives. May the Lord richly bless you all!

Heather Friesen said...

Yeah! I am so glad to get an update. Thanks for making some thoughts flow...they will probably come more rapidly now. :) Already have first post-placement meeting?! Wow. No worries. God bless you!

Judy said...

Hurray ~ the bloggin' mama's back!

So how did the first P.P. meeting go? How many meetings will there be? Over how long of time frame?
(remember ~ I'll vouch for ya!)

Hugs and love to ya'll!

p.s. hmmm ~ Paper and Pen...
You'll need to wear a t-shirt with a front pocket... get a geeky pocket-protector to hold your writing supplies and you'll be all set! hee hee... :-)

Sherri said...

Our visit with Katie, the social worker, was fine. We don't stress about such things... there are too many other pressing things to think about!
Even the panic clean didn't really happen, although it does look a bit better in here after getting our Saturday cleaning accomplished.
We have to have reports handed in at 1 month, 3 months, 6 months, and 1 year. WE (no social worker) then supply yearly reports to Ethiopia until the children reach the age of 18. No big deal - a little blurb about how the child is doing educationally, socially, as part of the family... and some photos.